Many men prefer a BBW over thin women. There are many reasons for this. In past centuries a larger woman denoted wealth and health, and for some men this biological instinct may have carried forward. For others they just want a woman who has curves. Here are just a few reasons men look at BBW dates favourably.
A BBW is going to have larger breasts, a larger butt, and more curves than a woman who is thin. Since breasts and butts are one of the most common factors that men find attractive, it stands to reason that the bigger ones would get more attention. While some men do want a woman with large breasts and a small waist, most are realistic enough to understand that with one comes the other.
Another reason some men may be interested in larger women is for fetish purposes. Some men enjoy feeding women and this becomes a sexual turn on. Some other fetishes may involve playing with the excess fat and curves on a BBWs body. The downside to this is many women who are larger don’t want to be seen as a fetish only, and men who are interested in these fetishes may have a hard time finding a willing partner.
Most adult dating sites allow you to create specific search criteria. This will allow you to find only women who list themselves as being larger or BBWs. Many of these sites also have specific categories just for BBW women and their admirers.
Many men prefer curvy women over those who are very thin. This could be for several reasons. On an evolutionary base, larger women used to denote wealth and health. Even though that standard doesn’t apply today, the instinct for many may still be there. Other men just enjoy the way a curvaceous woman looks. Regardless of the reason, the question remains on whether they make better lovers. Here’s a closer look.
Many men have said that curvy women are more sensual. This could be because the curves give the illusion of more of a figure. The extra weight also creates a softer appearance. On top of that, curvy women tend to have larger hips, bust, and rear. All of these can create a more sensual experience in the bedroom.
A Few Myths
There are several myths surrounding BBW woman as well. Many people, men and women included, assume that curvy women are more desperate for sex and therefore are easy. This is not only untrue, it’s offensive. A larger woman has just as much choice as a thin woman, and they don’t have lower standards just because they carry extra weight. Another myth is that all larger women secretly want to be thin, causing depression and promiscuity. This is also grossly untrue. Many curvy women are perfectly happy with their shape and they aren’t depressed.
A lot of men will say that larger women are better lovers. The truth is the size itself doesn’t matter. It’s the individual woman and their experience levels that determine what kind of lovers they will be.
Many men want a more voluptuous woman. For a lot of people, curvy women are sexier and make better lovers. However, many women who are curvier have body image issues and end up being afraid to post adverts. Here’s how you can overcome that and show off your sexy self.
Don’t Put Yourself Down
Yes, you will want to highlight the fact that you are voluptuous in your advert. However, avoid degrading yourself. Don’t say you are overweight, thick, or have extra padding. Instead, highlight the great things. Point out that you are curvy, have hips, have a full bust or luscious rear. These are all sexy attributes that most guys will get excited about.
If you want to add photos to your advert, or link to some photos, you will have more results in the response you receive. Try to be creative with the photos to show off the positive. Dress in flattering colours and materials that make you look good. Point the camera from above you down, this creates a more seductive photo that hides your flaws. Most importantly, smile! You can look the photos over if you are using a digital camera to decide if you need to change the posing or props for a better picture.
Where to Advertise
If you focus your ads in places that draw alternative attention, you will have a better chance of getting noticed. Try to find sites that cater to the BBW or alternative community such as Gold Coast Swingers if you happen to live in that part of Australia. Your advert will be generally more accepted and you will have better results.
Many men enjoy dating larger women. A larger woman has more curves, bigger breasts, and a bigger rear, all of which can be very attractive for men. There is still a stigma attached to dating a BBW, so it’s not uncommon for BBW dating to get lumped under the heading of alternative dating. If this is something you are interested in, here are a few ways to be active in this form of dating.
Sign Up for BBW Sites
If you do a simple Internet search you will find hundreds of sites and forums devoted to BBWs and their lovers. You can sign up for a few forums and become active in the forum community. You can also set up profiles on BBW dating sites to draw attention to yourself. This way you don’t have to deal with others preconceived notions of what a woman should look like, and you aren’t lumped in to a fetish group.
If you aren’t afraid of mingling with other fetishists, you can join an alternative dating website. Alternative sites will allow people to search for BBWs, swingers, bondage buddies, and many more forms of dating. The nice thing is you will be among people who are non-judgmental. The bad part of this is the fetish aspect. Many people don’t consider dating a BBW to be a fetish activity, and it may offend some people.
Voluptuous is a generic term used to describe women who aren’t rail thin. The term itself can incorporate many different shapes and sizes of women. Here’s a basic run down of what to expect with a voluptuous date.
Not all women who are voluptuous are necessarily ‘fat’. In fact, the term can be used for women who have large hips, a round rear, or even large breasts. It’s not impossible to find a woman with a 38DD with a small waist and still be considered voluptuous. To determine if this is the case you need to look at the woman’s measurements if she’s posted them on her profile.
Another term that is used often is ‘cuddly’. This tends to be used more often with women who are plumper. Many men prefer this. In past decades a plump woman was a sign of health and wealth. A lot of experts think this is still ingrained in a lot of men and they are instinctively attracted to this. Finding a listing that denotes someone as a cuddly can still create a lot of variance in their body shape, so you should get some more photos if this is what you are interested in.
Dating can be frustrating enough without throwing in different attributes that are important to you. Many men prefer a curvy woman over rail thin women. If you are one of these men searching for more voluptuous women to date, here are a few places to try.
Niche Dating Sites
Most swingers sites will allow you to tag your profile as BBW, then people will be able to find you, or allow you to be found, take a look at these Adelaide Swingers, many will either be BBW or looking for a BBW.
Many BBW women won’t post profiles on general dating sites. Many of them may be used to not having much luck, and others just want to find men who are specifically looking for a larger woman. You can find websites that are dedicated to finding voluptuous women. Many alternative sites will also include a category for women who fit this description.
Create Your Own Profile
Another way to find curvy women to date is to create your own dating profile. You can set up a profile on any dating site, and just add in to it that you are looking for curvy or voluptuous women. This way you can still scroll through the site to browse profiles, but you are also putting yourself out there for others to find as well. This way you aren’t discounting women who may not be BBW, and could possibly meet a great match.
If you have a little more money to spend and are looking for a more long term dating situation, a professional matchmaking service can help you find a suitable woman to date. You meet with the professional, answer some basic questions, and do some kind of interview. They contact you when they’ve found a few matches for you to choose from.